According to the sex study, a part of the bi woman has sex fantasy in the process
of having sex with bi woman or bi man,
and can increase their own sexual excitement. Once you understand this fact,
many men will feel ashamed, that their own image and sexual performance is not
good, it makes women have sexual fantasies. And many women themselves will feel
uneasy about this sexual fantasy, guilt, and thus deliberately inhibit it. In
fact, these two ideas are wrong.
Sexual fantasies can be - kind of stimulation,
as if a "psychological aphrodisiac", so common in masturbation and
sex when used to stimulate the climax of the situation. If you are not
satisfied with sexual partners, often through fantasy (imagination and another
lover) to achieve orgasm.Sexual fantasies can be - kind of stimulation, as if a "psychological aphrodisiac", so common in masturbation and sex when used to stimulate the climax of the situation. If you are not satisfied with sexual partners (such as reluctantly combined husband and wife), often through fantasy (imagination and another love of love) to achieve orgasm.
The usual fantasy content is mainly based on
the pursuit of happy sex activities, but there are also a few people who want
to be raped or sexually abused. From the perspective of psychoanalysis, there
are two explanations: (1) subconscious attack instincts and sexual fantasies
combined, if the object of the object, constitute the illusion of abuse of the
object; if pointing to their own, constitute the illusion of sexual abuse. In
the traditional sexual repression thought, women tend to have a sense of shame
or guilt of sexual behavior, if imagined in sexual fantasies is the initiative
to pursue their own sex life, it will cause self-guilt or anxiety;
"Anti-phase formation" of the psychological defense mechanism,
fantasy into being imposed on their "rape" behavior, you can allow
yourself to enjoy both sexual pleasure, but also for their own reasons to find
excuse.
In short, sexual fantasies are a commonpsychological phenomenon, usually harmless or beneficial. It can be used as a
sexual excitement of the "psychological aphrodisiac", but also a
psychological defense mechanism, can not achieve the pursuit of partial pursuit
of partial psychological satisfaction, but if too much indulge in sexual
fantasy daydreams affect the normal life, Or even fantasy and odd and believe
that is true, it belongs to pathological fantasy or delusion, and may be
schizophrenia or other mental illness performance, which should seek the help
of a psychiatrist.
At the same time, Research has shown that men
are likely to fantasize far more frequently than women. Bisexuals, too.
