I am worried about my sexual orientation, am I bisexual? (part one)

"I am 25 years old, I am distressed that I have no different feelings for the same sex and the opposite sex. I don’t know I am bisexual, gay or straight. I tried to go to some bisexual dating sites. College roommates always talked about the outstanding women in the school, I know this is a biological instinct, but I seem to be born with the lack of such instincts. I always like a color blindness can’t tell the color, in the sexual problems stumbled. Beautiful women and handsome male, in my opinion is a kind of beauty, I am enjoy with them, but do not want have sex with them. 'feminine beauty' even better than 'masculine beauty' make me fascinated, but I don’t like the same sex admirers who can’t extricate themselves to the male, I am probably too numb to the opposite sex, I Hope that the normal male as the opposite sex can love the heart of my sexual organs and secondary sexual development is completely normal, but why the psychological so insensitive, far less than their peers?”

The college graduate is a bit biased or bisexual, and he does not find any special cause of the situation. But whether it is sexual psychology stagnation or bisexual tendencies, I am afraid it has to rely on time to verify. Of course, we can also use the following assessment method to make a judge on their own.

 sexual orientation continuous spectrum

In the past people see the problem is always more absolute, sexual orientation is heterosexual or homosexual. In fact, the world is far from the case, it can be said that many things can’t be simply divided into two, they are from one extreme to another extreme continuous process of change. All these can be said that there is a wider transition zone between the two extremes, and most people are likely to be in a transitional area. Kinsey is a famous sexologist the United States of America, he was In the late 1940s, the human sexual behavior survey of men and women found that people's sexual orientation also has a continuous change as the spectrum, and distributed in different positions of sexual orientation continuum. The end of the continuum is absolute

heterosexuality (also known as exclusive

heterosexuality) with a fractional level of 0; the other end is qualitative or absolute homosexuality (also known as exclusive homosexuality) with a fractional level of 6; in the middle of the continuum Sex, the score of 3; the remaining 1,2,4,5 are distributed in the rest of the continuum. Of course, people are not evenly distributed in different positions on this axis (or continuum). According to Kim's own survey, if the man as an example: the distribution in the absolute heterosexual position on the number of 100%, then the number of men from the 1-6 position distribution of 37%, 25%, 18% 13%, 10%, 4%. That is to say 4% of white men from adolescence is completely homosexual, these people are difficult to be corrected, are life-long gay. This proportion will vary with different races, different cultures, and different historical backgrounds, but it reflects, after all, a certain trend.

Strictly speaking that homosexuality is not an exact term in medicine or psychology, it is only a generic term for a homosexual person who does not have any homosexual sexual behavior, especially at the age of 15 years of age that is still shy and uninteresting in the age The As for the 18 to 22 years old, still only interested in the same sex should belong to the category of homosexuality. There is no less sexual, inseparable partner and the degree of sexual contact is slightly heavier, there are specific homosexual sex more serious, is undoubtedly a homosexual.

Same-sex marriage law makes a great difference in bisexual, gay, lesbian and straight

If the law changed, person can get married with same sex partner. It well be a most pleasure thing for gay, lesbian. Bisexuals well be happy, too. It is possible for them to have date with same sex lover and get married with them. And there is 50% chance. Straight person will not happy any more.

There is a study told us that the possibility of allowing same sex marriage is large.  In the study, there are 12.7 percent of students think that themselves are different from many students in sexual orientation. 2.3 percent of them identified themselves as lesbian or gay. And 6.4 percent of them think themselves are bisexual. 4 percent are not sure which label belong to them. Among all high school students surveyed, 8.6 percent of students had

attempted suicide at least one time. The rate was much higher than the rate of past suicide attempts. Among the number of students who want to suicide has 28.5 percent students identifying themselves as bisexual, lesbian, gay or unsure of their sexual orientation.

As people gradually accept homosexuality and bisexuality, more and more bisexual, gay and bisexual come out. The number of them is stronger. They and them sexual orientation should be allowed on law.

If government allow the same-sex marriage law, something will be changed. For gay and lesbian, they will be the happiest part. It is the greatest respect for them that legally agreeing to get married with the same sex. They can get married with their lover. And do not care about other people’s opinion. Man and man can hand each other in the street. Woman

and woman can kiss each other on the street. That will be perfect.

For bisexual, there are some bisexual love opposite sex partner. Some others love same sex partner. Same-sex marriage law perhaps no effect with the former, however it’s having great effect with bisexuals who are loving same sex partner. Similarly, Marriage is recognized by law as the most enjoyable thing.  

For straight people, maybe they are the only unhappy groups. For female heterosexuality, perhaps they will think that handsome men are occupied by man. So they will lost many handsome and sex man choice. For male heterosexuality, maybe they will think about that women are occupied by woman, they are not happy, too.

In fact, when we found there are different sexual orientation person on the world, we should take measures to help these people live better instead of treating them unequally.