"I am 25 years old, I am distressed that I have no different
feelings for the same sex and the opposite sex. I don’t know I am bisexual, gay or straight. I tried to
go to some bisexual dating sites.
College roommates always talked about the outstanding women in the school, I
know this is a biological instinct, but I seem to be born with the lack of such
instincts. I always like a color blindness can’t tell the color, in the sexual
problems stumbled. Beautiful women and handsome male, in my opinion is a kind
of beauty, I am enjoy with them, but do not want have sex with them. 'feminine
beauty' even better than 'masculine beauty' make me fascinated, but I don’t
like the same sex admirers who can’t extricate themselves to the male, I am
probably too numb to the opposite sex, I Hope that the normal male as the
opposite sex can love the heart of my sexual organs and secondary sexual
development is completely normal, but why the psychological so insensitive, far
less than their peers?”
The college graduate is a bit biased or bisexual, and he does not
find any special cause of the situation. But whether it is sexual psychology
stagnation or bisexual tendencies, I am afraid it has to rely on time to
verify. Of course, we can also use the following assessment method to make a
judge on their own.
sexual orientation continuous spectrum
In the past people see the problem is always more absolute, sexual
orientation is heterosexual or homosexual. In fact, the world is far from the
case, it can be said that many things can’t be simply divided into two, they
are from one extreme to another extreme continuous process of change. All these
can be said that there is a wider transition zone between the two extremes, and
most people are likely to be in a transitional area. Kinsey is a famous
sexologist the United States of America, he was In the late 1940s, the human
sexual behavior survey of men and women found that people's sexual orientation
also has a continuous change as the spectrum, and distributed in different
positions of sexual orientation continuum. The end of the continuum is absolute
heterosexuality) with a fractional
level of 0; the other end is qualitative or absolute homosexuality (also known
as exclusive homosexuality) with a fractional level of 6; in the middle of the
continuum Sex, the score of 3; the remaining 1,2,4,5 are distributed in the
rest of the continuum. Of course, people are not evenly distributed in
different positions on this axis (or continuum). According to Kim's own survey,
if the man as an example: the distribution in the absolute heterosexual
position on the number of 100%, then the number of men from the 1-6 position
distribution of 37%, 25%, 18% 13%, 10%, 4%. That is to say 4% of white men from
adolescence is completely homosexual, these people are difficult to be
corrected, are life-long gay. This proportion will vary with different races,
different cultures, and different historical backgrounds, but it reflects,
after all, a certain trend.
Strictly speaking that homosexuality is not an exact term in
medicine or psychology, it is only a generic term for a homosexual person who
does not have any homosexual sexual behavior, especially at the age of 15 years
of age that is still shy and uninteresting in the age The As for the 18 to 22
years old, still only interested in the same sex should belong to the category
of homosexuality. There is no less sexual, inseparable partner and the degree of
sexual contact is slightly heavier, there are specific homosexual sex more
serious, is undoubtedly a homosexual.
