What about Bisexual People?

In today's society, we hear a lot about heterosexuals and homosexuals, but we rarely hear much about bisexualpeople. You could say that bisexual people exist somewhere in the center of the heterosexual-homosexual spectrum, although many of them don't think of themselves in these kinds of terms. They could be dating either a member of the same sex or of the opposite sex, so in the end, they get the best of both worlds. Bisexuals are viewed as existing in a gray area, sort of vaguely defined, but nothing could be further from the truth. So what are bisexual folks really all about?
Bisexuality: A Stigmatized Orientation
There's an unfortunate stigma which surrounds bisexual people. Many, both homosexuals and heterosexuals, can misunderstand what the deal is with those who identify as bisexual. Plenty of myths and pieces of misinformation about bisexual people abound. People on one end or the other of the heterosexual-homosexual spectrum think that maybe bisexuality doesn't exist and it's just an excuse to sleep with as many people as possible, or that it's a "phase" a person goes through before settling on being entirely gay or entirely straight. In fact, bisexual people, despite being a sexual minority, are often pushed into the background of the LGBT movement.

Bisexuals in Their Own Words
How do bisexual people view themselves? A lot of them claim that they are attracted much more to an individual than to whether that individual is male or female. Just like with any relationship, gay, straight, or bisexual, there has to be an emotional connection between the two people before they start dating. The gender just isn't that important to many of them, however, some bisexuals will seek differentkinds of relationships from different genders and may not necessarily be equally sexually attracted to both genders (although, as
bisexuals, they are attracted to both genders at some level). Bisexual people also adamantly defend their identities, repeating over and over that they aren't just going through a "phase."

Quite a lot of people think that bisexuality isn't a real category, but the truth is that it is. Those who identify as bisexual deserve more visibility and are and always have been an important part of the LGBT movement. Bisexuality isn't a phase, but a concrete category, just as real as heterosexuality or homosexuality. Just ask a bisexual person and they'll tell you the same!


How to be In A Relationship as a Bisexual this Christmas Holiday

Being bisexual during this Christmas holiday can be quite difficult because bisexuals are a relatively smaller group of individuals compared to homosexuals and heterosexuals. When you are bisexual, you belong to two worlds at the same time, which can be quite difficult for straight people and gays to cope with.
Maybe because of the fact that you will always be attracted to the opposite sex no matter if you are dating a man or a woman.

It can be tough for a bisexual to explain what it is that makes them attractive to a person of the same sex and because of lack of knowledge they will simply just judge you as being gay or lesbian, and you might lose then one you love.
For your advantage, you can say that you get the best of two worlds during this Christmas if you know how to handledating and to be bisexual.
My advice to you if you are a singlelooking for a partner this Christmas is to be open about it from the beginning, and at the same time look for a partner that is bisexual as well. That is the easiest solution for you else you might end up in a relationship, where you get a lot of love, but there is still something missing.
Think about this; you start dating a man or a woman that is bisexual just as you are during this Christmas, Eve. You get to know each other better and eliminate all factors that could cause jealousy. When you both are ready for it, you start enjoying out your bisexual fantasies together as a couple by going on a bisexual date. The best thing would be that you decide to look for somebody that is just like you, bisexual. Work on your relationship and start to eliminate all factors that could cause jealousy, when you are both ready for it, you start living out your bisexual fantasies together by establishing a bisexual date with a man, woman or another bisexual couple.
That way you can have a much better relationship not only based on love and security but also sexual satisfaction.


The differences between bi-couple and threesome

Bi-couples and threesomes - at first sight rather similar. Men and women in sexual interaction among each other. But how does it actually work in life? Are there crucial differences between the two kinds of relationships?
Some say that men and women view sex and intimacy in a completely different manner. Namely, men have a need to conquer with as many women as possible. They are
ever-lasting hunters with their deeply subconscious need for procreation. Even though many men live monogamously, this is considered to be their genuine feature, their real nature indeed. On the other hand, women’s perspective of sex has to do with their self-esteem and their need to be desired and powerful. Evolution shows that women get excited when two or more men fight for their affection. Males have to prove themselves to the females, who then chose the best and the strongest option among the contestants. It is a primitive urge for a woman to have the best option, to provide herself with stability. The need is very much related to the preparation of the safe grounds for offspring.
However, these features are considered to be some general background for occurrence of threesomes in both male and female cases. Of course, we are now talking about genuine motives, sub-conscious background. In less conventional systems of functioning, threesomes occur sometimes as experiments, while some people tend to nourish the habit of having threesomes on a regular basis. The concrete reasons and triggers vary from case to case. Any individual has their own personal motives for entering this kind of relationship, whether it is an adventurous spirit, a deeply seated need for infidelity or a longing to please and keep their partner.
One of the crucial differences between threesomes and bi-couples is that threesomes do not necessarily include any kind of homosexual interaction. It happens, but the main focus of the phenomenon is not on homosexuality. While bi-couples necessarily include the aspect of accepted homosexuality on both sides.
Threesomes are also of different nature from the sexual life of bi-couples from one more aspect. Namely, bi-couples have a structured and systematic way of functioning with each other. The homosexuality being an integral part of the relationship, in the relationship of a bi-couple, the appearance of third parties comes as the established rule, agreed upon by both sides, and it happens more systematically. Threesomes, on the other hand, happen in a more random manner simply because partners do not have a constant need of interacting with partners of the same sex, if they have it at all.
Bi-couples, on the other hand, have a rather different setting. Probably a bit more complex as well. They enjoy each other’s bisexuality and fluidity. There is a little feeling of competition involved as well. Some of them claim that they enjoy their partners being attracted to the same gender, but feel fortunate to be the object of attraction as well. On the other hand, the relationship of that kind is grounded on the fact that both of them are aware of the
circumstances that they can never completely fulfill each other’s sexual appetites. Therefore, the crave for adventure is mutual and accepted. Even though there are other partners involved occasionally, or most of the time, they actually have exclusive periods in their relationships. In order to maintain the relationship, either of them can call on exclusivity due to some external challenges or just a need to feel safe. They also tend to say that they enjoy their partner’s mind and body. They form emotional relationships with great amount of understanding and acceptance, but also usually put the relationship before the need for having sex with partner of opposite gender.
Either way, humans are humans. With all their qualities, faults, affinities, cravings, lusts, desires, weaknesses or habits. We all make decisions on how we are going to live our lives. We all do our best to be who we are and not be lonely in it. We all give what we think we can, to ourselves and others, in order to meet our own personal, deeply rooted, requirements and motives. Sometimes the means for getting there are less conventional than others. Sometimes the route is more difficult or more painful. But it is still our route. And our choice.