Are you worried that your partner is bisexual?

The word bisexual is familiar to everyone. In recent years, bisexuality and its related content appear in our side of the frequency is getting higher and higher. Do you still remember the Soap opera "friends" that were so popular? Ross and his wife divorced after eight years of marriage because his wife was lesbian and dating with a lesbian. So I’m

thinking that our heterosexual couples will not become bisexual in one day in the future.

Do you worry about this? If one day your wife tells you that she loves a bisexual woman, will you accept it? Or your husband tell you that he likes a bisexual man, as a wife, would you accept it? This is likely to happen. My friend Frank, when he was a teenager, found himself was a bisexual, but he did not come out, and later he married a heterosexual woman and had a child and a daughter. Now he is more than 50 years old. When he was forty years old, he came out, told his wife his sexual orientation. His wife was surprised. But also respect Frank's sexual orientation. So she gradually accepted Frank looking for same-sex partners. Frank is grateful for his wife's understanding. Over time, Frank's wife also joined Frank and his partner in, they become bi-couple, of course, maybe

you feel like threesome, but their relationship is just bisexual couple, Frank and his wife have a common boyfriend. At the same time, Frank told me that their sexual experiences were pleasant.

In Frank's view, this is the best outcome, and I think so.

If you can’t accept your lover is bisexual, before make relationship with each other, you'd better determine the sexual orientation of both sides. At the same time, in the future life, do not hurt your lover. Studies show that when a person has been got hurt in the process of dealing with the opposite sex, they will turn their attention to the same sex, and thus fall in love with the same sex. If you refuse bisexual or similar to bisexual behavior, please love your lover.

Which label you want to choose? Such as bisexual, lesbian, gay

Once, it is generally accept only heterosexual. Later, homosexuals come out. They are not recognized by public and law. Over time, people have slowly accept the community. And now, they always tell others they are lesbian or gay. At the same time, we think there are only straight, lesbian and gay. However, life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you’re going to get. So bisexuals come out. Bisexuals are subject of public debate. And now, with more and more bisexuals come out, the number of them is getting more and more strong. In fact, whether bisexual or the public, the focus of attention is whether to accept them as accepting homosexuals. The discussion of this issue will continue for a long time. Bisexual life can’t wait.

He is a 26 years old man, Jack. He broke up with his girlfriend when he was 17. And he made a good friend, Dan, when he was 19. As they spend more and more time with each other. Jack realized that he fell in love with Dan. Of course, only he knew that. He found he love Dan deeply, courage to declare Dan. Fortunately, Dan is gay. Therefore, we can think about the results. And now, they together with each other for 4 years now. “I’ve never thought I was bisexual before the age of 19. Well, thanks god. I’m so lucky to meet Dan. I know that people still look at me with different eyes, or talking about me. I know how I am, Dan knows, too. So I told myself do not care about other people’s eyes, we are very happy with each other. At the same time, I’m pleasure to tell others I’m bisexual. That’s my label. ” Jack said.

 Not everyone can be as Jack. Lucy was a very cheerful person before she found that she have sexual desire for man and woman. She was very scared to realize that she is bisexual. “Of course, I do not exclude homosexuality and bisexuality, but I can’t put myself in a bisexual position. I fear my friends laugh at me, do not accept me. I think I am a strange person. I am afraid. Therefore I hide myself. I did not speak and participate in social activities. I am very painful, I do not know how to do, "Lucy said. As she said, she became less and less acquainted with her friends, becoming lonely and lonely. Later, she met our group, of course, only online, we chat with her, enlighten her, suggested that she see a psychiatrist. We want her to be the way it used to be.

When we accept ourselves from the inside, we are happy to put a label for ourselves, but also willing to share with friends. On the contrary, we will hide ourselves away from friends farther and farther.

I want to say is that no matter what kind of person we are, whether you are lesbian, gay, or bisexual. You just do the best of yourself.

Valentine's Day is approaching, I wish you happy.

Tips for the Bisexual single dating a bi-couple

As a bisexual single person, you may be contemplating dating a bi-couple. Engaging in a polyamorous relationship with a bi-couple needs thoughtfulness and responsibility to be successful and fulfilling for everyone involved. Here are a few things to keep in mind;  

Don’t confuse swinging with polyamory

Swinging is more about sex, while polyamory has more of a focus on the relationship – both heterosexual and bisexual. 

Be honest about intentions and needs

Just as in any relationship, honesty goes a long way. It is critical for everyone to sit down and have an open and straight-forward discussion about what they are looking for, and what they want to give. No assumptions should be made by anyone, about anyone. Be clear even about things you think should be obvious – like your bisexuality.

You cannot be the glue that mends a broken relationship

Sometimes when couples are having problems, in an attempt to save their relationship, they will bring in more people. Protect yourself; make sure you do not step into a situation that is already tense and complicated.

Allow each relationship to grow organically

Interpersonal relationships cannot be forced. Nor should they be compared with other relationships. It is important for all to honor both the heterosexual and bisexual bonds as individual, and unique.

Be creative with time management

Spending enough time with each partner will be a challenge. Try establishing regular date nights with each person, and include certain dates where you all spend time together.

Do not be a referee

Never, ever, take sides or allow yourself to be a go-between. You will be the one who ends up getting hurt.

With open communication, respect, and compassion, you and your partners will be able to maintain what hopefully will be a long-lasting, and loving relationship.