Why should me tell my wife I am a bisexual?

The most painful thing is that you are a bisexual man, but can not speak to your wife, can only pretend to be a heterosexual man, but also deceive your wife. You are afraid that the truth will break your relationship. You have no courage to try to tell her your real sexual orientation. Tell her you are a bi-man. 
Why do we encourage you to tell your wife you are a bisexual man? There is a hypothesis here. If you were not telling your wife the truth, your future life will be more and more unhappy. On the one hand, you want to live with your wife. On the other hand, you want to follow your sexual orientation to look for a boyfriend. The perfect thing is that your wife and your boyfriend always stay together with you in your mind. But you intend to keep the idea in your heart forever. However, your thoughts will be more intense until your affect your mood, affect your life, make you unhappy. The most serious consequence is to break the relationship with your family. It also the something what you never want to happen!

For your wife, she has the right to know your sexual orientation. If you told your wife that you are a bisexual man, there will be two cases here. She accepts your sexual orientation, or not. Of course, the former is the best outcome. The latter, the worst outcome is divorce. 
For yourself, you do not have other better way, except to tell the truth to your wife. You can not deceive her for a life. At the same time, in order to make your life can be happier in the future. 

Before you are going to tell your wife you are a bi-man, you have to make sure you can accept the worst end——divorce with your wife. Of course, the communication method is very important, good communication can get better results. The next time we will tell you the way to communicate with your wife when you want to come out as bisexual in front of your wife.

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